“Margaret was always in the middle of people, she was always reaching out to help people. It is really great that there is another activity that reaches and helps her now in her hour of need.” These are the heartwarming thoughts of carer Derrick Conn on the immeasurable benefits he and his wife Margaret, who is living with Dementia, feel as part of Kircubbin’s Making Connections Group.
The shared group, in partnership with the General Practice Multidisciplinary Team (MDT) and the Alzheimer’s Society, offers much-needed social support, mutual understanding and connection for individuals and their families to come together on their Dementia journey. This month the group hosted local musician Edelle McMahon, for a morning of song and musicality.
Derrick explained how Margaret was diagnosed with Dementia in January 2023 and how much they both look forward to the Making Connections gathering. “It’s only when you come that you realise how many people are affected by Dementia. There is such an impressive spirit of friendship and of helpfulness with the staff who engage with us and we come once a month. We always put the date in our calendar,” said Derrick.
South Eastern Trust GP MDT Senior Social Work Practitioner Catherine McNiece described how the shared space is “incredibly valuable” for the families who attend.
“This environment provides a social outlet for everyone involved, particularly for those who may be at a stage in their Dementia journey where leaving their loved one alone isn’t possible. The shared group offers much-needed social support, mutual understanding, and connection. It’s hear-warming to witness moments of engagement when members recall something that brings them joy—whether it’s a song we’ve sung together or a game of bocce that reminds them of past routines. Seeing the smiles and recognition on their faces is truly uplifting.”
Carer Janice McArthur whose mum Rosemary is living with “mixed Dementia” reflected on how the monthly group is one that, “Mum won’t miss!”
Janice said, “The staff, from the outset make the telephone calls and they make sure we know when and where the meeting is happening to get mum prepared to come. I think the group is good, not only for the person suffering with Dementia, but it is also really good for the person that cares for them.”
Janice continued: “It is great for mum to have conversation with others who have the same condition. It is really good to have that communication and interaction with others. The fact that mum is getting dressed up to come out somewhere is really nice too and it give a wee bit of a confidence boost, which is really good for her.”
With a background in education, Janice explained how she can see the benefits of the group, “in so many different ways.” “It is relaxing and you are made to feel so welcome. There is always tea, coffee, lovely scones and fruit. It is nice to see that there are other people caring for their loved ones who are in the same situation and you don’t feel alone. The staff here are absolutely fantastic.”